The Budget

Wedding Wednesday is a new series on this blog featuring information and or experience from my years as a Bridal Consultant. This may not be of interest to many, but your comments/opinions may be just what the occasional visitor wants to read.  So, another series begins. . .

Fairy tale weddings do come true if you work closely on the planning & preparation of that memorable celebration. Most women envision themselves exchanging vows with their prince charming in a beautiful & romantic island or beach wedding ceremony. How about put all this imagination and daydreaming into a reality! The average cost of a wedding these days is $37,000, but you can design a wedding to fit your style & pocketbook.

There are numerous things that you need to give your attention to like: Venue, dress, decorations, guests, invitations, programs and so forth. To achieve all your great wedding ideas, A BUDGET is going to be your key ingredient. The main thing to remember is that you have to make what money you have, cover all the costs. (Not what you expect to get from your soon to be Father-in-law or your God Mother). And, there are expenses that you have no control over that are fixed costs: license, space rental & Taxes. But, there are other costs that you can fully control: wedding dress, decorations, caterers & guest list. The number of guests you want to have, will drive up the prices you pay for caterers, beverages, table decor and size of the rental space. Therefore you need to have a realistic Guest List.

The reception is the most costly unit of a great wedding and the Food & Music is the most important!  If you have bad food and terrible music the reception party is a bust, and you will have deep regrets. That is why a strict guest list has so much importance in the planning. Yes. . your wedding gown is very important, and you will find that it is much easier to shop for it, once you have your finances in order. Here is a list to assist in your budget preparations:1. Make a strict Guest List (Average # 180 guests)
2. Reception Costs (Venue & Catering)
3. Bridal Gown & Groom’s Attire
4. Wedding Rings & Honeymoon costs
5. Beverages (Bar) & Gratuities
6. Photography & Music (DJ or Band)
7. Ceremony (License, Clergy)
8. Flowers (Bouquets & Table Decor)
9. Transportation, Invitations & Programs
10. Travel costs for Destination Weddings.

As a guideline, the national averages for certain wedding costs are:
Bridal Gown = $1,200.00
Groom’s Attire – $250.00
Wedding Rings – $6,200.00
Floral Arrangements = $1,980.00
Venue Rental & Catering = $12,700.00
Entertainment = $1,400.00
Cake = $466.00
This is only a Guide. . you can also have a Debt Free Wedding and have a Great Time. Just stick to affordability!Other Factors to Consider:
Safety First – If kids are at the reception, you cannot afford to choose a spot that is not safe for children.
Second – The venue should come within your affordable range. Do not overextend yourself.
Third – The decor and atmosphere should be in harmony with your wedding Theme.
Fourth – There should be adequate bathrooms.
Fifth – The space must have a Liquor License if you want to serve those beverages.
Last – The spot must be accessible for your guests. Transportation should not be costly.

Note: Certain vendors like the Photographer, Clergy, DJ & Band have to be fed and you are responsible for their meals, so you have to include them in your Catering budget.

Note ii: Save costs on Gratuities – serve a Hot Buffet (you have to tip the servers to serve a four course meal). If the food is delicious your guests will not mind sampling all you have to offer.Note iii: Save transportation costs by having the Ceremony & Reception at the same location. You will need a large facility but it will save you time & money in the long run.

Before you get overwhelmed, get a reputable Wedding Planner or Bridal Consultant to work within your budget. They can get discounts from vendors that they have a relationship with. Most hotels have a Free coordinator so, make good use of their services. Also, there are many wedding sites that offer free tools like wedding blogs and guest list trackers online. Get a Free Budget Planner Here.

A Good Budget makes for a Joyful Wedding!

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  • Reply Falasha

    Great tips, I will be planning our vowel renewal since I did not have a wedding and these are great tips.

    xoxo Falasha
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    10/04/2017 at 11:37 am
    • Reply Neti*

      Vow renewals are so special, so make sure you Enjoy every moment. . .Thanks!

      10/04/2017 at 11:38 pm
  • Reply Oh to Be a Muse

    We definitely stayed on budget with our wedding. Part of me wishes I had actually spent more money on things like the photographer and the wedding DJ though.

    10/04/2017 at 1:33 pm
    • Reply Neti*

      Thanks Dear. The food and music makes the party, and the moments fade away if you don’t have a good photo album.

      10/04/2017 at 11:43 pm
  • Reply Missy May

    Thank you for the great information Mz Neti. I will remember this on my big day some day if God permits.

    10/04/2017 at 3:14 pm
    • Reply Neti*

      Your day will come my Dear. When you are ready to jump, send me an email and I will remind you of the key ingredients for a grand celebration.

      10/04/2017 at 11:46 pm
  • Reply nerline

    You always provide great information, Neti! We got married at a country club and they pretty much took care of everything, including transportation and the photographer. All I had to do was buying the wedding favors and be there in a wedding dress. Thanks for all these tips, sis. They are very helpful. Great series too.

    10/04/2017 at 7:46 pm
    • Reply Neti*

      Thanks Sis. Sounds like a stress-free wedding. Kudos!!

      10/04/2017 at 11:46 pm
  • Reply robincharmagne

    I love this series! My Mom was a caterer for 30 years and I love a good wedding. So many brides focus on the dress, but I say focus on the food and the photography!

    10/07/2017 at 10:28 pm
    • Reply Neti

      Thanks Sis. I love everything about weddings.

      10/08/2017 at 6:13 pm

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